Tea and Green Ribbons by Evelyn Doyle
Fighting for His Kids
Tea and Green Ribbons is a memoir by
Evelyn Doyle based on the true struggle of a father attempting to get his
kids back from the church-run industrial schools in Ireland during the
1950s. Dessie’s wife ran away with her
lover, leaving him with six small kids. Who knows, maybe she suffered
from ephebiphobia, a fear of teenagers. Maybe she was a planner, and decided to
get out while the going was good before the real suffering started. Left with no other options, Dessie temporarily
placed the kids in state-run convents so he could find work. The convents were alternative care facilities
designated for orphaned kids or kids whose parents were unable to care for
them.
Dessie then went to England in an
effort to find work so he could raise money to support his kids. Months later
he returned to a position back in Ireland, but when he tried to claim his
daughter, he was told he could not legally take her out of the convent. In order to be released, both parents had to apply to the court. It didn’t matter that their mother had
abandoned them. They didn’t even know
where she was. And so his two-year legal battle began.
Through courage and tenacity, he
kept appealing to the courts until it reached the supreme court of Ireland. The
fact that he had an English, Protestant “housekeeper” ready to take care of the
kids, didn’t help his cause. There was
great animosity towards the English. He might just as well have
lined up an axe murderer as a babysitter. Evelyn
herself did not like her new “mammy” as her dad called her and was told not to
let anyone know Jessie was more than a housekeeper. This complicated matters as well as the fact
that the longer the kids stayed in the industrial schools, the more familiar
and acclimated they became to their new homes.
They made friends who would be difficult to leave. The end of the book
details the court scenes in what had become a very high-profile case.
I was touched by this father’s
determination to get his kids back against the odds. It’s a remarkable story. Although the end
court scenes seemed to be a bit lengthy, they are essential to the book, and the
book was definitely worthwhile. This book was made into the 2002 movie
called “Evelyn,” starring Pierce Brosnan, Aidan Quinn, and Julianna Margulies.
Happy Reading,
Annette
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